The right angle or movement can amplify sexual stimulation

6 Ways to Help Her Have Orgasms

As she gets aroused and horny her Skene’s gland will start to swell and fill up with fluid (this is fluid that she ejaculates when she squirts). I covered her vaginal anatomy in-depth in the Pussy Eating Guide, check it out now if there are any parts of her body you’re unsure about. Here are a few of those most frequently asked questions about squirting during sex. Women squirt when they are in the right state of mind. Regardless of your Superman techniques, if you do not address emotional blockages, she will not squirt. To reach her G-spot, form the Spiderman grip (as if Spiderman is shooting his webs) curve your fingers upward inside her, and put pressure on her G-Spot.

Everyone’s experience is different, and how squirting feels can vary from person to person. For some, it feels like a tidal wave of release; for others, it’s subtler. Creating the right vibe for squirting is more than just protecting your bed.

It might feel like the wonderful release you feel when you finally find a bathroom after holding in your urine for too long. But the only way to know what it will feel like for you is to give it a try. What you may not realize is that women have their own version of a prostate called the Skene’s glands, two small ducts surrounding the urethra that help lubricate the vagina during sex. Just as the male prostate gland secretes fluids during orgasm, some women emit a dense, milky liquid when they orgasm.

Due to their similar function to the male prostate, skene’s glands are sometimes called the female prostate. The fluid released during squirting contains creatinine, urea, and uric acid, confirming that it is produced in the kidneys, collected in the bladder. The most important part of how to make a girl squirt would be to make sure that she is comfortable in her head with squirting. Let her know that it isn’t urine that would be coming out, but the same juices that lubricate her vagina naturally when she is aroused.

Use lots of lubrication to avoid irritating the area. Relax your pelvic muscles as you stimulate yourself, and then bear down as you get close to orgasm. Squirting refers to the expulsion of fluid from a woman’s urethra when she is having an intense, mind-blowing orgasm that is due to G-spot stimulation. Science doesn’t really understand much about squirting, they mostly study male sexual stuff, so they don’t know what the thin, milky fluid is that comes out. Some say its urine, some say its fluid from the Skene’s glands, the female equivalent of the prostate gland. While there are no guaranteed techniques, some methods may increase the chances of squirting.

It’s the same approach that I recommend to women when learning how to orgasm. So, female ejaculation is a smaller amount of gooey woman squirt, whiteish fluid from the female prostate. The female prostate is also known as the Skene’s gland [6]. In fact, “analysis of the fluid demonstrates that it is chemically different from urine” [5]. For some women, when they feel that rush of fluid at the same time as orgasm it can really enhance the orgasm. I can’t know this for certain since I’m not a man, but it could be very similar to the rush they feel in their urethra when they are ejaculating and having an orgasm.

Staying attuned to her orgasmic contractions and verbal cues will help you know when she’s ready for more. If you’re serious about helping her reach orgasm multiple times, it’s not just about the position—it’s about how you use it. The right angle or movement can amplify sexual stimulation, target her hot spots, and keep her arousal levels soaring. Let’s break them down like the expert you’re becoming.

Consider squirting as a bonus, says Mercer, and don’t get disheartened if it doesn’t happen. “Either way, if you’ve found her G-spot and perfected the art of arousing her this way, you’ve made steps to give her the best orgasms of her life,” she says. Then, with your palm facing upwards, insert two lubed-up fingers and make a beckoning motion inside her. Use tapping, stroking and caressing movements on her G-spot, which is located on the vaginal wall towards the stomach.

Many people can squirt from intense G-spot stimulation. Find yours and try stroking motions and strong pressure. Let any urges to pee build up rather than holding back. Some need multiple orgasms to squirt, so you can keep going if you aren’t too sensitive. Squirting is the outflow of a liquid from the vagina during an orgasm.

Everybody is different, so there’s no guaranteed trick that will make a squirting orgasm happen for every g-spot. Try many different pressures, positions, angles, etc. A vibrator on the clit or something in your butt might help or might be a distraction, but you won’t know unless you try. Women enjoy having control over their sexual stimulation.